It all started as I embarked on a journey to start my own business. Maya Angelou said, "Success Is Liking Yourself, Liking What You Do, and Liking How You Do It." Most of us like what we do as we start our businesses and we like how we do it.
Hmmm, But do you ever notice that is it seems like a lot of female entrepreneurs haven't spent time on “Liking Themselves'' and realizing that being comfortable in your own skin leads to success.
Well, I wasn't going to stop my dreams of being a successful entrepreneur. It's true, I had trouble liking and loving myself because of my past trauma and the stress and anxiety that followed it. Maya Angelou's quote resonated with me so much I decided to make a promise to myself and re-create my thoughts to reverse the damage of my negative thinking. That's what was holding me back from the life I truly wanted and deserved.
A life without all the stress and anxiety piled up in my head so I can think more clearly and have the success I always dreamed about.
They say that your childhood defines your adulthood and lifestyle. So the things you went through in life will indicate what kind of adult you will be.
So for me I was shy, I had low self-worth. I felt like know one was there for me because if they were why did I experience so much trauma early on. I didn't take opportunities that I should have growing up. I always knew the answer, never raised my hand. I was an excellent dancer. I never performed because of stage fright.
As a young adult I had an opportunity to be on the show where as a realtor you help a client find a house and it leads to more business and exposure but I hesitated on answering HGTV and they gave the spot to someone else.
I just didn't make decisions that would benefit me. I married someone that eventually added to my negative experiences of abuse and divorced after 12 years of marriage.
After I divorced, I had had enough of the sob stories and decided to get my life on track once and for all.
I wanted to change my story and I wanted to have a new one to tell but I didn't know how until I found out some key information on how to change your life.
I didn't know someone like me could change their life. I assumed it wouldn't work for me but over time as I implemented a few changes here and a few changes there and FINALLY, my life finally was changing.
I was able to show up like I needed to. I finished writing my books and journals and marketed them instead of uncompleted files. I spoke to people to help them in their lives towards the life they dreamed about.
I woke up in the morning happy again, filled with joy and I finally had the energy and emotional mastery to move forward.
All this was thanks to the little things I did day in and day out.
Here's How This System Helped Me Recreate My Life
It was this past experience of trauma and abuse and how I had to rebirth myself into the new old me that made me realize something...
Not everyone gets the opportunity to become the person they really can be. And that breaks my heart.
So as I have been moving right along in life like nothing ever happened, I made a promise to myself; that I would do whatever I could to help out other women who were on a mission to live out the purpose and talents and become the best version of themselves they can be.
So I started breaking down the "system" I used to become the woman I am today, author, teacher, coach, and speaker.
And today, I'm excited to announce that the "system" is ready for release.
